Some things are hard

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Registered: 07-31-2006
Some things are hard
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Sun, 03-04-2007 - 4:52pm
Hi everyone
Well stbx moved out on Friday. He took the kids this weekend to see his new house. Man was I lonely this weekend. Its way too quiet when I know no one is coming home for a few days. I said that to a friend of mine and he said "well you made that choice" that kinda hurt. Its true though.
My son came home and told me about all their visitors this weekend. That hurts a bit too. My friend and her husband went over. It only bugs me because my stbx can't stand her husband but they have BONDED over this divorce. My friend doesn't really talk to me either. I think that is the hardest thing with divorce, worrying about what other people think, and finding out who your friends really are. Why are other people so judgmental? Its none of their business really. I can't imagine judging something I can not fully understand. ALL my other friends are supportive and helpful. They are not taking sides in this at all. Just let both of us know they are there for us. I wish this one friend didn't bother me so much. Oh well. Just needed to talk someone thanks. S.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 5:54pm

Hey, How's your week going?


I think that the novelty will quickly wear down, and your kids will find life at dad's to settle and and be more "normal".... and if not, hey, then so be it!


I quickly discovered things to keep myself busy when my kids are with their dad.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~