Sort of waiting for the bomb to drop ...

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Sort of waiting for the bomb to drop ...
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Sat, 09-03-2005 - 11:39am

All Discovery & Interioggatories have been sent to H's atty.

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Sat, 09-03-2005 - 12:13pm
Rebecca,
It sounds like you an I are going through a lot of the same things. I wonder if your ex and my ex are related! LOL. Stay strong, it sounds like you have it all under control and are very prepared. Just be on your guard, you never know how people will react,but I can tell you already know that *hugs*. If you dont' mind me asking, what kind of custody are you and your ex arranging? I have met with my ex's attorney last week and since they are not being realistic with their demands I am meeting and hiring an attorney next Wednesday and considering my withdrawl offer for joint custody although I would be the residential parent. I don't believe he is capable of proving a suitable environment for them, and I am so tired of him saying things to my kids about me and questioning them about my every move. Well, enough of me, hold tight and stay stong, I know it will all go in you favor!
Carli
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Registered: 05-07-2003
Sat, 09-03-2005 - 12:14pm

Our D&I just were sent to my STBX this week. He's been out of sorts the last few days (nothing to worry about, just quiet), so I'm sure he's gotten them. He's going to have to answer to where the money from the house loan went; how much he spends on his MANY cars: 2 race cars, 2 trucks, 1 ramp truck, 1 sedan, and 1 muscle car; tax returns for the business and personal; bank accounts (he's taken our son's bonds and cashed them in, and not repaid our son); credit cards; mortgage; business ledgers; ownership documents; payroll records ( he doesn't give himself a paycheck, but skims off the top); etc.

Good luck to the both of us, Rebecca! Hopefully we'll get the answers we're looking for to support our cases.

Susie Y

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 12:16pm

WOW!.... I hate it that you're still having such a difficult time when you have to deal with him... and you know, if he's not taking his meds, it's only a matter of time until he takes things out on Averey.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 09-05-2005
Tue, 09-06-2005 - 4:34am
Rebecca! How do you take this person! He sounds like a mess. I'm just going through the beginning phases of separation and it looks like it will be a messy divorce. I'm my husbands 3rd wife (he's 38). My husband is very crafty and would have made a great attorney. Nothing is ever his fault and he has an answer for everything. He got custody of his kids from his two previous marriages. We have a child together (19 months) and I know its just a matter of time before he goes after her.
I'm here to try and keep it together though some days I just want to fall apart. How did you deal with the sadness?