Stalking Order?

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Registered: 11-05-2004
Stalking Order?
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Tue, 11-07-2006 - 9:03am

Ok, My husbands girlfriend issued a stalking order against me. I have never contacted her, threatened, anything. She put it in the order that 1.) I walked in on her and my husband at dinner back in May, and I belittled her.(ok, I never knew about this woman, my husband told me he was with a friend!I never yelled, caused a scene, nothing. I walked in the restaurant saw my husband this woman. I asked who this was, he explained, I told him he should be home with his family--he lied to me, said he was on his way home. And I left crying, thats it.
2. I went to her place of employment...ok, my husband was there, I went to see him. I never went inside the place, my husband came out and talked to me. I never went there for her or saw her
3. I went to my husbands apartment to pick the kids up,she was there. My husband would not the kids come out and wouldnt open the door. I was mad.--she put I was trying to break-in, I never did that.

There are a couple of other things, i shouldnt mention. But I have never talked to this woman, EVER, never threatened her, NOTHING. Now, we have to go to the court, and I have to face her. Doesnt it sound frivolous?? Should I be worried? I do not want a restraining order against me.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: kate923
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 12:10am

First off, she needs to explain to the court her relationship to your HUSBAND, then you can proceed to say how she is interfering with your MARRIAGE and the PARENTING of your minor children.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~