STBX has been taking dd & so far so
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STBX has been taking dd & so far so
| Fri, 12-23-2005 - 2:41am |
good, i suppose. Nothing too major has happened. & Lord knows the GAL never EVER got in touch w/ me, my atty or dd's counselor - even after 1 letter from the counselor & 2 from my atty.


Rebecca,
Glad things have calmed down for the holidays for you. My STBX was saying the other day how tight this X-mas will be. Well, he makes more than me and my rent is higher than the mortgage. I didn't even acknowledge that statement because I don't feel sorry for him. He will have the kids Christmas eve and Christmas morning, and then I'll have them the rest of Christmas day.
I have started dating a real nice guy myself and there is chemistry there for me. He is divorced and has two children about the same age as my kids. He also has a terrific job. It has been a wonderful distraction for me and has given me hope that I've still "got it." I won't let my kids know either until I feel there might be something there down the road.
Anyway, I hope you have a Merry Christmas!
Belinda
Rebecca...
I'm glad things are going all right, even with a few bumps in the road, but for the most part all right... Things are rarely smooth in the world of x's... it is something I hope for some day, but truly wonder when it will be...
I don't talk to xh much at all... if the phone rings and its him, I give the phone to Joey... it is just easier that way... they chat, etc... a couple of nights ago he called and they talked and then he wanted to talk to me, which I incorrectly ~assumed~ was to thank me for sending the pictures of Joey to him for Christmas... no... there were no thank yous and that's a big thing for me as I am trying to be the bigger person and send xh something from Joey, even though it is never reciprocated... although I do wonder what he could send... not much... For the past two years I have sent framed pictures of Joey, as it is something he needs to have and is easy, etc... anyway... his whole wanting to talk to me was to tell me that presents for Joey had been sent to his Mom's house, which is what I had assumed in the first place, but he said it so smugly that it really hit me wrong... but it could have just been me too... as I was pmsing earlier this week and that can make me have little patience with xh...
OK, I have now vented about xh, and gotten that off my chest so that I can have a Merry Christmas weekend... I wish you and Averey a peaceful and Merry Christmas!
*hugs*
Julie and Joey
Thanks for the update.... I'm still thinking about you and Averey, and I hope that things continue to go.... OK with her he dad.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~