Stbx is having an anxiety attack!
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| Thu, 06-09-2005 - 10:41pm |
And I'm moving out in 2 days and I need to start packing (he knows all about the move, hence the sudden anxiety attack). I know I should feel sorry for him, but it is all a big show of theatrics. He's making a big deal about holding his left arm and having to lean against the wall every three feet he tries to walk. He's groaning and making such a big deal about it. I know anxiety attacks are real. I have them myself, but this is just ridiculous. I asked if I could help him by getting him something to eat or drink. He said "why do you care? If I die tonight you get 50 grand from my life insurance. That should make you happy." Arghh!! And when I asked him if the medium sized boxes are still in storage, he said he couldn't talk about it and he went into another round of bad acting. I know he probably is having an attack, but he is such a liar and manipulator I don't hesitate to assume he's playing it up to keep me from packing.
I don't know how to handle this. I need to pack. This is my last night to do it, since I'm working late tomorrow night. But how horrible is that for me to pack up when stbx is so emotional about it? We live in a tiny apartment, so it's not like there's anywhere he can go to escape.
This sucks. But at least it's a good strong reminder why I have to leave. I need that. I am so done with these histrionics of his.

I hope you got through your packing. Like you said, soon you will be out and won't have to deal with it. Let us know how you're doing now.
-sang
Well, I hope that you got through it..... ya know, sometimes we just have to do what we have to do.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~