STBX homeless

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Registered: 04-27-2008
STBX homeless
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Sat, 06-28-2008 - 3:07pm

Well, where the heck do I start (again...new chapter...guhhh. STBX is homeless because his mother's house sold (she's in a nursing home), and he's been living in his truck.

To make matters much worse, he told DS & DD that's what was happening because there are no apartments and Mom won't let him move back in! There are lots of vacant places here, especially since the university kids have gone home. So kids are wanting me to take him back here!!! YIKES...no way.

I am going to let him stay at the house while I am in Vancouver for a week, however, and that will help until the 8th of July, which is his next court date. (Maybe he'll have a jail sentence, I'm not sure) So I'm in the bad books with the kids for that, AND for having a "man" here yesterday morning helping me to clean up the mess from the staff party the night before. Everyone thinks he slept overnight which he absolutely did not. Both kids are still not talking to me :(

I needed to vent somewhere and this is always a good place. Thanks Everyone. (I'll be checking any responses tomorrow evening--I'm showing my horse in a jumping competition tomorrow and have to get ready for that--some positiveness there for sure.

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Registered: 06-28-2008
Sat, 06-28-2008 - 4:13pm

Well when they get older and have their own relationship snafus they will be saying mom I'm sorry I made things difficult on you when you were going through hell.

I put my STBX in jail too. He made the mistake of hitting me in front of a witness that had nothing to hide from the police.
Took two days before he blew the legal limit and could see a judge.
he called our friends from jail.
I am the bad guy.
Deep breaths.
If I ever talk about getting married again could someone please shoot me in the foot?