Still in limbo...
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Still in limbo...
| Mon, 10-08-2007 - 10:13am |
well, it's going on four months that my husband & i have been separated - we've went to counseling & spent several hours discussing issues etc. we still aren't 100% clear on everything, however we're pretty much there - the problem is, deciding how to proceed.
one of our issues was him being too ready to talk about separation/divorce, from the very beginning - which isn't a good idea, however the problem was more in the fact that it was still technically "his" house b/c it was his when i moved in - unless you've been married for a significant amt of time (we were @ 2yrs)

Hi Laurel.... what's happening?
I just wante to croak over when I read "his grounds for separation were b/c i didn't wear lingerie & cook meals for him".... he *really* needs to get a grip (and if my EX had outright said that, I would have threatened to kill him :-) ...at least to myself!)
Hope you're having a good week.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Well, if he's not going to "commit" to sharing a home with you.... raelly sharing it 100%, then he's not 100% committed to the relationship.
You are being smart for not being in a hurry.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~