still wants his cake!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2008
still wants his cake!!!
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Thu, 07-10-2008 - 10:48pm

I have lurking here for a couple months now and Im just so lost....


I caught my stbx having an affair in Oct 07 and he left me for the OW. They have been living together now since he left and I have been so hurt and lonely. Lately he has been coming around more often. (he says to see the kids yet he shows up after thier bedtime) He says he misses me and made a mistake, he trys to be lovey with me, wanting sex..... But he is still living with her!


My head wants to proceed with the divorce but my heart wants him back..... It would just be so easy if he stayed away, if he just stopped playing these games. Hasnt he hurt me enough?

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 12:24pm
If there is a court order that he has to pay c.s. & the bills, then you should make him stick to it.

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