Stupid man!

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Registered: 01-21-2007
Stupid man!
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Fri, 04-20-2007 - 10:54pm
He left me three months ago. Just said 8 days ago in an email he wants a divorce. But then today he asks if we can have "no strings attached sex" on Sunday when he comes by to pick up and drop off some things. What is he thinking? I know what he's thinking with, but does he really think it's that easy? He says we're both adults and that we can handle it. So does that make me a child since I can't handle it? I told him last week I don't want a divorce, but that I have accepted that he does. So why is he reaching out for what he doesn't want?
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Registered: 10-25-2006
In reply to: mberber2005
Sat, 04-21-2007 - 6:54am

M,


He wants sex without commitment. Tell him to take a cold shower. Don't give in!


CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 11-28-2006
In reply to: mberber2005
Sat, 04-21-2007 - 7:59am

Oh wow!

No no no no no ...

Bye bye, baby.

Iow, don't do it!!!

M

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Registered: 01-21-2007
In reply to: mberber2005
Sat, 04-21-2007 - 9:47am
Actually I told him to go buy a prostitute with all this vacation money he has (went out of state for a week in March over Spring Break & now is going on a cruise in May) or to at least buy himself a DVD. That's exactly what he wants, no commitment. I don't even really want him to come over on Sunday now. A friend suggested that I take the files we need to sort through out onto the porch. That way he's only inside for a few minutes to get the tv from the living room. I think I'll do that, because I don't trust myself to say no. But I do know that I need to!
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Registered: 04-19-2006
In reply to: mberber2005
Sun, 04-22-2007 - 7:56pm

Could you have a friend there on Sunday with you so you won't be alone with him?

Be strong

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Registered: 02-23-2006
In reply to: mberber2005
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 9:38am

mberber

ICK! my stbx still wants me to have sex with him. no way, no how, ever or in other words, over my dead body.

what