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Such an idiot
| Tue, 02-06-2007 - 11:41am |
Well I talked to my sbxh, today. I haven't spoken to him, in 2 weeks. I had to ask him a questions about my things. I asked how he was doing.....He has a new girlfriend of 2 months, and he's taking her on a trip, and to meet his parents. Needless to say this caused me great pain. I asked though. Why do I keep asking about his life? I keep inflicting pain on myself. I miss him, but I'm getting better.....but then I talk to him, I can't just ask a question, and go on. I ask him about her. We've always been really honest with each other, so when I ask he tells. I want to be able to say hello, once in awhile. Is that a bad thing. Please, and advice would be helpful. Do I cut communication off, completly?

My husband just divorced me for another woman. He is still here for twomore weeks and we have had sex and it breaks my heart and I dont know why I am doing it. He also wants to be friends but seriously I dont think I can this time. We married three times.......we would split then still see each other. an addictive relationship for sure.
I think you could be friends down the road with him, someday but if I were you I would have NO CONTACT at all if there are no children. at least till you heal then see later how you feel.
good luck I know this is very very painful........but you can do it!
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