This sucks!

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Registered: 05-02-2007
This sucks!
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Mon, 05-14-2007 - 11:31am

STBX comes and goes as he pleases. Left Sat. a.m. and didn't get home until after dinner last night! This is really driving me nuts! He's moving out for June 1st, but this is really starting to takes its toll on me!!!! Had a meltdown yesterday, I felt like my head was going to blow off! This is just SO hard with him there.

Send me some strong vibes, I'm feeling pretty lousy.

Hugs,
Jennifer

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Registered: 08-15-2006
In reply to: jjw0503
Mon, 05-14-2007 - 2:38pm

I know how you must feel, I've been there. My now xhusband after 16 years pulled that with me. Towards ours last times together after telling me that he no longer loved me anymore, he started coming and going as he pleased. Drove me crazy nuts. I had told him that this was no motel, and that he can pack his stuff and leave. Its been a year and half now. It was hard at the begining, because I still loved him, but it was his choice to leave. As time goes by it gets alittle easier to live without him. I never thought I would get this far, but I did. You hang in there, and stay strong. If you want to talk more let me.

Hugs to you.

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Registered: 09-16-2006
In reply to: jjw0503
Mon, 05-14-2007 - 7:48pm
They all suck....my STBX does not live with me, but comes and goes at his convenience to see the kids. He refused to settle on a planned visitation schedule in mediation and wants to be able to just "call ahead." I, meanwhile, am busy all the time without any real breaks. I have full-custody of 3 kids (long story), a job, a house, etc. He pretty much is no help. Boys are stupid. Where have all the good men gone? (wait...isn't that a song from Shrek 2?)