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| Mon, 10-10-2005 - 1:58pm |
Those of you who don't know my situation, my stbx left this state in March and has only seen the children once for a 6 hour visit. He was never abusive toward them, but would neglect them.

Hi Melanie.
Hi Melanie,
Well, I am sure you know my feelings on this already. :) Being with their dad for some time would probably be good for them, as it would also be a break for you. I know you would miss them terribly over that period of time, but maybe it would not have to be the whole summer. Possibly just half of it, or a couple of months?
I don't think your judgement is clouded at all. If you were letting a really bad father have them just so you could have a break -- that's one thing. But he does love them and it would be good for both him and the kids.
Just my two cents..
Eric
Hugs, Brenda