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tears that won't stop
| Fri, 07-04-2008 - 12:08pm |
It has been a year since my husband left, we are in the process of a divorce. He just came and honked the horn for the kids to go with him to my sister in laws for a BBQ. Since they elft, I can't help but sit here and cry, we should all be together going as a family. Instead he chose to cheat- leave his family and never ever fight for us. I watched from the kitchen window as the kids waved good bye- I don't speak to my husband.

I know, it's very hard watching the kid(s) leave to go to gatherings that you used to be a part of.
It is so strange-when I worked full time-attended grad-did all household chores. I hated weekends because everyone else could go out and "play" but as Cinderella I had my chores to do. That has certainly changed into truly hating holidays.
Now that I am about 8 mo. into the divorce from hell and retired, I have all day everyday to do whatever and it is so painful. I am ebarrassed to be depressed about memorial day flag day-then July 4th-in essence every holiday is so dreaded. We as a couple were pretty ambivalent about flag day and memorial day
You are right about these special occasion days that never really mattered before. Luckily I spent the day
Hi,
Divorce sucks. Just plain and simple, it's one of the worst forms of rejection you'll ever experience. So, I won't tell you not to cry. It's part of the grieving process we all endure.
One thing you need to realize is this:
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
Hi ,
Thank you all for posting. It really made me feel better to know I am not alone. And I will listen to all
I am recently divorced and my ex took his new sweetie, the one he cheated on my with, to our vacation home and she is sleeping in