This is terrible.....
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This is terrible.....
| Sun, 04-03-2005 - 8:22am |
Hi Ladies.
I'm having a hard time here.....
Every night I have dreams about the ex. Now I am thinking I miss him.....if you can believe that. Why else would I be dreaming about him? I don't understand it, I am with someone else now and happy, but why am I still dreaming about my ex and thinking about him?
AHHHHHHHHHH
Angelena



I am so sorry that you are having those dreams...i have them every night too, and it doesn't help me deal well in the daytime because I can't sleep for an hour or sometimes more afterwards and i end up drained in the morning. it's really frustrating and i never would have believed how upset it could make me if someone had just told me about it. i wish i knew what to say to make it better. i know that if i take a shower before bed, write in my journal and remind myself of the good things, have a cup of tea and read...in a nutshell take my time unwinding before bed, it has helped one or two nights over the last week. I still had the dreams, but they were better and i only had one each night instead of all night long. i'm hoping that with time they will start to fade altogether.
i hope it gets better soon...hugs to you
Bridget
Thank you so much for your kind words.
I don't know what happened! I feel like I am taking about 30 steps backwards. Sometimes I have "dreams" and sometimes they are just normal everyday stuff. I don't know why all of a sudden this started, but sheesh! Someone turn off the switch please ;)
If my SO knew about this he would be so hurt.
ugh..... I will try to do the wind down thing before bed. Thank you for the suggestions.
bridget
I think that sometimes we dream about "what we wanted".... what we'd hoped for.
Of course... a few nights ago I was dreaming about trying to help many people in many different ways (physically and emotionally) and I just couldn't do it all (sounds like my life in a nutshell!)
I don't think that all dreams necessarily represent the present or most recent happenings..... like dreaming about past good things before they got... not good.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
I'm happy to report last night....... da da daaaaaaaaaaaaa, no DREAM!!! WOOHOO!
Of course, I didn't sleep either....haha.
Thanks for the great advice once again Karen ;)
Hugs,
Angelena
B/C your mind is an intricate thing ... & difficult to understand. If this helps, I dreamt i had sex w/ THE meanest most DESPISED doc at work ... & BELEIVE ME .... there is NO WAY in real life i would want that!
HUGS
R~