Testifying agains stbxh today...yuck!
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Testifying agains stbxh today...yuck!
| Wed, 03-21-2007 - 7:48am |
I have to drive a full hour away and sit in on the divorce hearing of my stbxh adultery partenrs. I read incriminating emails between my stbxh and her and her husband says that if I come down and testify that he will give me copies of all the dirt he has on them for my hearing. It is disgusting. I feel like Jerry Springer is going to pop out of a closet at any moment! I am going to have to face my stbxh and his filthy whore. Yuck! Literally, she is a whore, she told her stbxh she would sleep with him if he would refrain from contacting me! And this whore interacts with my children. Because, of her and my husbands selfishness, my children now think it is perfectly okay to run out on your family and that marriage means nothihing! That tears at my soul! Well, I will let ya'll know how things go. I am going to try and refrain from speaking to anyone, if at all possible...will simply answer the judges questions and get the hell out of there.

Good luck today. Just keep your shoulders high and your chin up. You can make it through it. May your guardian angel sit on your shoulder and guide you through your testimony today. Keep us posted. . .
Becka
Is there a really really good friend who can go with you and lend support and fend off folks you don't want to talk to? Of course you may not want a good friend to hear what is going to be said, but if you have someone who could come with you I would think it would help alot.
I am so sorry your dear children have to be exposed to this ow. Yes, isn't selfishness what alot of this divorce stuff is about.
Will the other wronged party testify at your hearing?
GL -- hope it goes as well as possible.
M
I'm glad you survived the ordeal. Great job to you. Just remember that each day that passes brings you more resolve and more strength to do what is necessary for you and your children. Best of Luck and God Bless.
Becka