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| Sat, 08-19-2006 - 12:17pm |
My thanks goes out to everyone who showed me such great support. I don't know where I would be without you. I now just have to figure out which direction to go. I am thinking I am going to try as little contact as possible. Even mail him his expense lists and checks. Only in the case of the children will I be faced with him. Right now I don't even know if I can look at him without crying.
Good news for this week is.....I have lost 13# in 18days. Maybe I can catch the eye of someone else.
Huge Hugs to Everyone! Brenda
Good news for this week is.....I have lost 13# in 18days. Maybe I can catch the eye of someone else.
Huge Hugs to Everyone! Brenda

I was so happy when I read your post, I felt like dancing a jig...if I could actually dance well ;)
I think that is a VERY good idea about limiting contact with your ex. If the old way of doing things doesn't work for you, time for a change! Being faced with an ex constantly makes it VERY difficult to get past them. It may be hard at first, but in the long run, I really think this will be a positive change for you.
And congrats on the weight loss. Just make sure you keep following the Dr's orders. It's weird, but sometimes when we start making positive changes for ourselves, we feel happier, which makes us look better! I kid you not. I can't tell you how many people have told me how much I've changed over the last year, how my voice sounds lighter, I look happy and content, etc.
I think you're making a very wise and intelligent choice.
hugs brenda ---- that's what we are here for, to give support, to help each other, to be a shoulder to cry on, or to kick some bu*t when that is needed.
your post actually sounds.... good.
you'll be fine, i assure you.
and kudos on losing that weight!!