Thanks All, Its the manipulation that ..

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Thanks All, Its the manipulation that ..
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Thu, 02-23-2006 - 2:03am

KILLS me ... go ahead, do it to ME, but not to our poor innocent CHILD!!!


I called him today. Stupid, i know. But nothing ELSE works. I said "You need to know that these things you say to Averey, do NOTHING to me. You are involving an innocent child in adult issues, & it hurts NO ONE but her. Saying i have a boyfreind to her, i could care less. But it hurts HER. & its not even true. & when it BECOMES true, she will be the 1st peson i tell. But telling her that i "kicked you out". WHAT do you think that accomplishes? You know what it does? Its going to FORCE me to tell her exactly WHY you were "kicked out", are those details you WANT your child to know about you? You are emotionally torturing her"


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Thu, 02-23-2006 - 5:06am
Rebecca, Just for your own information.. Dr. Phil's show today (thursday) is on ex's from hell; might be good! Also tomorrow it's on compulsive liars! He may have some good info for you! I am also going to try to watch! LOL!
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Thu, 02-23-2006 - 9:25am

Hi Rebecca, I'm new here so not familiar with your entire story but I just wanted to say how angry your x makes me. What a shame that he is using your precious daughter this way. I agree that the best thing you can do is to teach that no matter what problems her father has, they are not her problems.

Shame on him. Hugs to you and your dd.

Trudy

 

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 10:39am
In-freaking-credible!--(I like that!)... I also like the way that you're communicating with Averey about all of this... good job, Mom!!!

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 02-23-2006 - 10:26pm

R~

You would have thought that he would have gotten the point by now... I'm so sorry that Ave continues to be put through all of this mess, by someone who is supposed to protect her from this sort of thing... at least that is what I've heard "fathers" do... I wouldn't know myself as Joey has an ear infection and I called xh and let him know yesterday and he said that he'd call to check on him a couple hours later when he got off work and Joey still hasn't heard from him... BUT, I'll take that anyday over what poor Ave is being subjected to...

Sending both of you hugs... he's not hurting you with his words, but he is hurting her, so I know you're hurting for her...

Julie