Is there something wrong with me???
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| Wed, 11-21-2007 - 1:39am |
I am new here and need help or advice please.
It started in 99 me and my ex started dating. Things went fast as far as the relationship. I then caught her cheating on me 2 months in. I left it at that it was done. 6 months later we started talking again. One thing to another we were back together. This happened 2 more times. I know I will take a beating cause I should have moved on, but I didn't. So almost 4 years ago I told her the only way to work this is to get married. We did and a few months ago that ended mutually. We talked about it and neither of us was happy. Since that day I cant not stop thinking about her and miss her so much it hurts. We talk everyday recently and I am feeling like I am still in love with her. I don't know if she feels the same way. SO after 8 years of on and off then married now divorced I would still go back to her in a heartbeat. I know the stories of there are other woman out there and I should move on. I don't know what it is that keeps me always wanting her. I have been so hurt by her but yet I still come back to her. We have talked about what was wrong and were we didn't do this or that and looking at it now it would have been so easy to fix. I just always took it for granted I guess that she would always be there. Now that she isn't it is killing me each day. Has anyone been in this position before and if so what did you do?
Thanks for your help if you have it.

I am going through something similar. My ex and I broke up about 6 weeks ago after ten years.
Hello Dear,
NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU! - Some of us love harder and deeper than others.
I know exactly what you mean.
Stillinlove,
Pardon me for being so blunt (and only going by what you wrote) but it sounds to me like you're more motivated by "the pursuit" here than actually having a relationship with this woman. In other words, it seems to me you're addicted to the chase. When you actually "get her" you don't know how to have a relationship without the excitement of pursuit.
If I were to draw this relationship out on
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