Things are no better here with X ...
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Things are no better here with X ...
| Wed, 10-24-2007 - 2:25pm |
he is still refusing to see the court ordered psyc, & so I am still keeping dd from ANY visition with him - its been over 5 weeks & at this point, he isnt filing in court over it - since he himself is in contempt 3X for not seeing the psyc, AND has no $ to file, i wouldnt think he will.


Hey there rlch,
I'll think good thoughts and send them your way.
Wow!... I'd be a little bit concerned about what he means.... "what I have planned"....
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
You know, I was - but i am pretty sure he is full of hot air, as ALWAYS. He's just a bully.
He apparently has an appt with the psyc this Thursday. I bet he thinks that ONE appt with the guy will buy him back visitation ... not if *I* can help it.
I also provided the pscy with a packet of the worst of the worst of his behavior towards dd - so he knows what/who he is dealing with.
Time will tell ...
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
I'd hardly think that at this point any judge would hold it against you for not letting him have visitation back after one psych visit... or TEN... and truly, at this point.... since he's not done anything to prove he should have visitation until now.... after this length of time.... I'd withold visits until the judge... or psych.... OK's it with you.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
Yeah... sometimes in the muck of it all we tend to overlook the obvious (and so if anyone questions that... what the judge says vs. what you perceive as imminent danger... YOU RULE!)
I mean, if I let my children get in the car with ANYONE that I felt wasn't in control of themselves (especially because "the judge said so", you'd better believe that if something happened, they'd come breathing back down MY neck for allowing it in the first place because my sense of imminent danger should have overruled anything else).
You know the situation first hand... and better than ANYONE else.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
R~
Sorry I haven't posted here.
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!