You are entitled to your feelings, and you have every right to write them down. No, do not ask him if he's read it; it's clear he has. Simply find a new hiding spot, and work on you (and primarily that people pleasing issue). I suffer from the same thing, and I am reading such a good book for it right now: "I Need Your Love--Is that True?" by Byron Katie. Please check it out and see if it helps you as much as it's helping me.
You are entitled to your feelings, and you have every right to write them down. No, do not ask him if he's read it; it's clear he has. Simply find a new hiding spot, and work on you (and primarily that people pleasing issue). I suffer from the same thing, and I am reading such a good book for it right now: "I Need Your Love--Is that True?" by Byron Katie. Please check it out and see if it helps you as much as it's helping me.
Good luck!
Katy