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| Sat, 07-07-2007 - 10:46pm |
My STBX has the kids for summer visitation. My daughter called me about a week and a half ago to tell me that her father was using an on-line dating service. That is fine, I couldn't care less what he does. Curious about what he had to say about himself I went to the site and looked him up.
Although he lies like a cheap rug in his profile which I think is funny what has me upset is that the picture he has as the front door to his profile is of him and our kids. Our daughter in the picture has her school sweatshirt on and you can see the name of our town. The thing is that we don't live in the same town. Should I tell the court? I know it sounds petty but I really don't like having my children's pictures on the internet and certainly not on a singles site. The problem is that it seems as though the judge in the case as well as my attorney have sided with the STBX on every issue in this divorce. Is it worth pushing, will anything result from it? Or am I just fooling my self that anyone cares about the welfare of my kids.

I would just mention that "a friend" saw the pic on the site and that you think it might be a better idea to photoshop out the school name on your daughter's shirt for the pic.
He probably hasn't even thought about it... and I'd give him the opportunity to be aware... and fix it.... before you take legal action, but MOST DEFINITELY there are people out there lurking in all places, and a child predator can easily find out *too much* info about a parent, then locate the child and easily make it seem as if they are a friend of the parent just because they know the personal info from the rest of his profile... see where I'm headed with this?
Whatever you do, don't implicate your daughter AT ALL!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~