Thinking About Divorce

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Registered: 07-07-2008
Thinking About Divorce
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Mon, 07-07-2008 - 6:27pm

I am 34 years old and a mother of three kids ages 2, 4, and 6.

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Wed, 07-16-2008 - 7:59pm

I agree with much of what Musiclover is saying.

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Registered: 07-07-2008
Thu, 07-17-2008 - 6:36pm

I really appreciate all of the advice and support.

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 12:32pm

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Edited 7/29/2008 12:59 pm ET by searcingforpeace
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Mon, 07-28-2008 - 8:48pm

What you said couldn't be more right on the money for what I am thinking and feeling! I am stashing cash and I too wish I could put the money into a CD, but the risk of him finding out about the CD isn't worth the risk. which he would find out because I would have to report the interest on our tax return. I will just keep stashing cash. We will be buying a house in the next 6 months and I plan on buying a house that I will be able to afford on my own. I also don't want to give him a heads up on the future divorce for obvious reasons.

I also do not want to live the rest of my life like this. My husband is exactly like you described yours. It's repulsive! It is good advice to wait until the 10 year mark for retirement. I will be close to that anyway by the time by youngest is in Kindergarten.

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