For those with finalized divorces...

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Registered: 11-02-2004
For those with finalized divorces...
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Sun, 02-20-2005 - 10:55am

My divorce will be finalized Wednesday. I filed in Dec of 2003 but my stbxh transferred military units and got deployed pushing our finalizing out 14 months. It has been an emotional rollercoaster even though I have been seeing someone for a year and couldn't be happier. I feel as though I have made great strides in healing and getting over

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Registered: 03-02-2005
Wed, 03-02-2005 - 3:34pm

Wow, debs1999, sounds exactly like me! (switch 10 months for 8 years though) I even remember commenting to a friend that day that after all the back and forth and fighting, all the judge had to do was sign a piece of paper, and poof, it was over.

I think by the time it happened I was too worn out to feel much. I went in afraid I'd be really sad, but I think I was mostly relieved.

aimeeannie, it DOES get better. Take care of yourself!

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Registered: 03-02-2005
Wed, 03-02-2005 - 3:58pm

Aimee

If you have children I think it makes it harder even after you are divorced....for me I have been divorced ...it will be 5 years in September and it is just now getting easier for me. He is actually someone who I can have a sane conversation with about the children. So I think it depends a lot on if you have children. Do you????

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