For those who initiated their divorces
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For those who initiated their divorces
| Thu, 01-18-2007 - 3:28pm |
How did you go about bringing up the subject? How did it go?
I want out of my marriage and my H has a history of anger/violence so I am afraid to tell him. We have discussed it a few times and he keeps telling me I have to stay for our daughter or it isn't what I really want or even better yet, I have been working on changing.
Thanks for you help!

Well, at a quiet restaurant.... in a public place... or have a friend call to check in periodically when you're going to tell him...
Basically, when my then-STBX was "volatile".... I just made it all about him--it certainly made things much easier-- "I'm not happy, and if I'm not happy, I can't be the wife that you deserve to have, it's just not fair to you, I feel like you are't as happy as we were, we've tried to get things back on track, and this is just dragging on and I feel like it's not working.... How do you feel?
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~