Timing of Leaving

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2008
Timing of Leaving
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Tue, 08-12-2008 - 11:48am

I am entering into an Opt Out Separation Agreement with my husband.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 4:32pm
If you think there is any chance of violence or even a big scene, then it might be worth it to move out of the house before you give him the papers.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 11:31am

I didn't want to actually vacate "our" house until it sold because 1)he couldn't afford it on his own, and 2)I knew we had a better chance of selling it if *I* was there maintaining it, making sure it looked good for showings.... so we lived there together, while the divorce was "processing" and stuck it out.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2008
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 9:47am

I would like to thank both of you for responding.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 10:45am

Oh yes... this board has been a lifesaver to me MANY times.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2008
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 2:29pm
I found the blog after I sent you the email, I am sorry.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 2:56pm

Yea!!!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2008
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 3:02pm
Thank you so much and I apollogize for all the different emailing.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 08-28-2008 - 3:17pm

It bothers you because you are holding onto the times when your relationship was good (as we ALL do!), and seeing him doing that just hurts.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~