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Today's the day...
| Sat, 07-12-2008 - 7:44am |
As those who have been around know, H has been out of the house since winter. But today he'll (finally) move belongings and some furniture out of our marital home. It needs to happen, I'm not questioning the divorce, I just know when I see the open space of the missing furniture, or the empty bedroom closet, it's going to hit hard. So much lost. So much forfeited. And I feel so bad for my kids :(

Oh Moving,
My heart goes out to you.
I know everything seems very bleak right now, and I once felt the same way you did. Even though I was the one that initiated the divorce, I had horrible feelings of guilt and worry about what it would do to my son.
Think about this - even if you stayed with your STBX, your children would not have the benefit of growing up in a tight-knit family like you did. Sadly, their father wants to disrespect and mistreat their mom. That's a bad lesson to learn! Now, you'll have the chance to go on and live a happy, fulfilling life. One day, I'm sure you'll have a new relationship where you're treated well, and your children will get to witness positive interactions.
Hang in there...lots of hugs and good vibes going your way.
Oh Moving on..................(((hugs))))).