Told him we are leaving..scared
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Told him we are leaving..scared
| Fri, 04-01-2005 - 6:10am |
Hello,
I told my husband yesterday I booked my lil ones and mine air tix yesterday.
I am just trying to get away to realy think things over without the added stress.And possibly to see a lawyer. We don't leave for 11 days.This is going to be a difficult time.
He is telling his daughter that nothing will ever seperate him from being with her every night, that he is dead without her etc. Mind you , I try to keep all of this away from her since she is only 2 and very smart. I could hardly sleep last night wondering what he may do.
Looking..needing support:(
Thanks

I'm guessing he senses what might happen. Whatever feelings that have driven you to this board have caused him to think maybe you're not coming back. He doesn't need you to spell it out in words for him to feel the fear of losing you and his children.
Yes, he can take his child on a trip and you cannot stop it, just as he cannot stop you from going on a trip either. Why could you not handle him going on a trip, but you expect him to handle your absense? You are having fear of him going away with the children, but can't you see how your trip is putting a great deal of fear in him, and he has nothing to ease that fear?
She is very very attached to me. I actually offered for him to come out with us at least for a few of the 8 days we are going.