told my H i wanted a separation
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told my H i wanted a separation
| Mon, 08-06-2007 - 2:09pm |
I almost feel numb. These past two days have been terrible and I just don't know if I made the right decision. Part of me wants to be strong and go through with it and be on my own. Being on my own is a huge factor in why I want to separate. But of course part of me is in agony over the pain my H is going through. I just don't know what to do. We've been trying to work it out for almost four months and I just feel no affection towards him and can't give him what he needs. He has been smothering me with "love" and it has just not been good. Now that I've said I want to separate, I just feel numb and not sure. Help.

Hi gals--
I found myself in the same predicament for the past few months. And it took ages, but I did it. And here I am one week out in my own apartment, and I LOVE IT!!!!! I am so happy.
I agonized for months over this decision, and my husband was/is devastated. But I knew I needed it, I needed space and clarity and I am so happy. He is bugging me a lot, but I have stayed strong and am starting to feel free.
I found a 5 month sublet and can't wait to feel what this independent life will be like.
I say, go for it!
Good luck,
Brandi