Tomorrow is D day for me

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Registered: 01-07-2005
Tomorrow is D day for me
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 7:45pm
Hi all,
I was on here about a year ago under a different user name, can`t even remember now what it was and my husband had just filed divorce papers on me. Well his lawyer dropped his case after taking $900.00 from him and I got a lawyer through legal aid. Now My daughter and I are living on our own, was living with my son and his family, and my husband and I have worked things out enough that we have become good friends and are willing to share custody of our daughter. We sign the divorce papers tomorrow and will go before the judge tomorrow. The thing is I am almost sick to my stomach at the thought of being divorced. I know that I can`t live with him and have no desire to do so and he has found someone else it is just the thought of not being married any longer after 20 years. Just need to hear from others that may be facing the same thing and have the same feelings. I am scare of what tomorrow holds and being single again. Why do I feel this way when we have been separated for over two years and are happier then we was together? I guess I am confussed about my feeling. I didn`t realize I would feel like this.
Thanks,
Becky

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Thu, 04-28-2005 - 1:53pm

raising a glass of bubbly! hugs hugs hugs ----- you can be a little sad now, and a little relieved and you take all the time you need - that's what we are all here for!


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Registered: 01-07-2005
Thu, 04-28-2005 - 5:56pm
Thanks everyone. I went over to a friends house and we sat and had coffee and talked. My daughter came in all smiles and asked was I divorced yet and when I said yes she gave me a big hug. Shock as she is at the age that she doesn`t want hugs unless she is sick or scared. I am feeling some better. Hope tomorrow will be a better day.
Becky
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Registered: 03-06-2005
Fri, 04-29-2005 - 5:56am

Remember you WILL be ok.


Hugs to you and Congratulations!


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