Too young for this

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Registered: 03-14-2005
Too young for this
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Mon, 03-14-2005 - 12:41am
Hi all,
Im twenty years old, married last july to the man ive been dating for the last five years of my life. We have a beautiful two month old daughter together. Our relationship was rocky to say the least but i was under the impression that for the last year and a half at least he had come clean and had been honest with me. Over the past few weeks ive learned that our entire relationship had pretty much been a lie- there had been many other women (some of whom i admittedly knew about), and lies lies lies. Until last night he had lied to me about how many sexual partners hed had before we were married (although through most of them we were dating) and about smoking (a sore subject for me). Since finding all these things out, the supposed truth i guess, ive been considering divorce. We are both in the military, hes in iraq right now, and my units mobilization is pending. I need advice.
Cortney
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 03-14-2005 - 7:40am

My advice? You have a whole LIFE ahead of

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Registered: 04-03-2003
Mon, 03-14-2005 - 2:21pm

There used to a "divorced under 30" section here, it's gone now but i can assure you that many of us are still around. i'm almost 30 but i seperated at 27. i knwo lots of younger people that have gotten D. i know it seems crazy but your age works in your favor. You and your child can have a grat life :)

hugs,
jen