Trying for a Big Step

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Registered: 01-27-2005
Trying for a Big Step
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Fri, 03-18-2005 - 6:02pm

I've decided I can't go on like this. I've given X all the power because I don't want us to be over. I still don't think he's given it the thought to his decision. I know he hasn't been fair to me. We've put a lot of time and effort into this relationship for him to just walk away...But, that's not what I am getting at tonight!

I asked him last night (after I partook in a little too much green alcohol) if he's be around this weekend because we needed to talk. He said yes. Wish me luck.

Ruth

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Sat, 03-19-2005 - 7:30am

I understand completely. I did the same thing in the beginning, up until recently actually.... giving them all the power so they feel like we changed and maybe they will think we are making a mistake by divorcing/seperating.


Good luck


Hugs,


Angelena



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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 03-19-2005 - 10:23am

Good luck Ruth! Stay true to yourself and know that you've done all you can.

((((HUGS))))

Melanie

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sat, 03-19-2005 - 1:26pm

Wellllll....... how'd it go?


Let us know!


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