Well....I can relate to your situation. I am currently separated from my son's father. We were supposed to be married but due to my illness was postponed. Love can be complicated. I know how you feel. The only advice that I can give is to not force anything. If it is one thing that I have learned from my own situation is that you cannot force something that is not there. If it is meant to be, it will be. In my case, yes we do still love each other very much. We see each other everyday. He visits his son everyday. We still sleep together on a regular basis we just cannot live together. We both need time to figure ourselves out before we try to do anything with "us". I know people on the outside looking in would say that it is stupid and such but its hard to just let someone go that you've been with for a long time. All I can say is that time will tell. If it is meant to be, it will be. Sometimes a separation helps because it makes you realize what you had and what can be. It can also determine if the separation should be permanent. I'm not the best at advice but I hope I helped a little bit.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my message & respond. I am still separated from my H, but still continuing to see him. By the 6th day, I texted him & he came over. A part of me wants to end this, but I feel I am too weak inside to let all ties go to this man. I love him desperately & just dont know how to say NO to him. Hopefully as time goes on, I will be able to trust him again or just move on without him. Again, thanks everyone.
I know exactly what you are going through. I forgave my wife once for having an affair and she did it again and this just happened over the weekend. I feel so lost and lonely, and im sure you feel the same way. I know its the worse feeling in the world but i try to get by day by day. Its only been 4 days and i know i got a long road ahead of me
Hey single,
First, please don't fault yourself for marrying this man.