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Tryingtogetthisdone
| Sat, 10-21-2006 - 4:16pm |
Ok - We split two years ago. Tried mediation, and didn't agree on visitation or finances. My 1st child had medical issues and I had to focus on that for the better part of our seperation. He lives in our home, I am renting. The divorce degree expired and has not been refiled. Tried to mediate again 6 months ago. No luck. We have both moved on to a degree, but emotionally still have not untangled. He manipulates the schedule when I am involved with someone or have plans with friends, he continually messes up any plans I have. He has done this for 2 years! He's a pilot so we don't have a set schedule. It's determined monthly which stinks. I have had 1 full weekend off in 2 years! Now he's involved with a woman, an at home mom, who dictates his life and planning which is fine. But I am really ticked off at her entertaining her family and friends in my home seeing as we don't have papers filed or a financial settlement on that home. Am I wrong? I have tried for months to get him to work with me on the divorce but he always puts it off. I finally got a paralegal and filed the papers which will be served on Tuesday. Can I put a stop to his girlfriend in my home until we have a financial settlement. I am looking to leverage the girlfriend to get my ex to cooperate. Do I have legal rights in this area? Anyone know.

Hi - It's probably a lost cause to even mention the girlfriend issue UNLESS there's inappropriate behavior happening in front of the kids (and that would be defined as inappropriate behavior that would be inappropriate is two married parents were exposing kids to things that kids should not be exposed to--sexual activity).
DOCUMENT when he is and isn't seeing the kids.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~