Ugh....help!
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Ugh....help!
| Wed, 10-03-2007 - 9:20pm |
almost 3 months since the final divorce.
I torture myself and email my ex.
| Wed, 10-03-2007 - 9:20pm |
almost 3 months since the final divorce.
I torture myself and email my ex.
It is hard to watch someone that you have built a life with walk away for something they believe is better. My husband did the same thing and left me to pick up the pieces with the children and the finances. He is living the life a single "good looking guy" and I am living the life of a single parent. It drives me crazy the way he can pick and choose what he wants to be involved in with the children and what he wants to leave up to me.
We have been separated since March,after 15 years of marriage, and it has taken many months of therapy for me to find myself and realize that I will be happy without him. Don't get me wrong, I still get angry and sad, but the feelings don't come as often and they are not nearly as strong as they were. The other thing that I have learned is that my STBX may think he is happy, but he has not even begun to deal with his issues, he is too scared to look in the mirror and see what is reflected back at him.
The process that we are going thru is not easy, but there are blessings along the way and I bet you have learned so much about yourself and the strength you have inside of you.
Good Luck and keep moving forward! You are not Alone!
Hi Jenn....
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
JJW,
"I just want to find peace."
Then stop sending him
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