Update and it's promising for a change!

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Registered: 05-02-2007
Update and it's promising for a change!
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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 11:55am

Well, I'm in the process of refinancing the house. I should have the loan closed by the end of next week! YIPPEE! I even managed to get a little extra money to replace the appliances and floor in the kitchen (STBX has been telling me we would do it for 13 years but we always spent the money on a new "toy" for him) and still kept the payment manageable! Phew!

STBX got a letter from my attorney stating we need a QuitClaim of the Deed to ME ASAP! I hope this stupid OW, all the way across the U.S. was worth it! I mean, she doesn't even live here! I just don't get it!

So, things are moving forward and that's all I can ask right now. One step closer to peace.

Thanks for reading!
Jennifer

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Registered: 06-06-2003
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 12:33pm
Good for you. I've just started remodeling and taking care of things that had been put off for years because his needs came first. It's a sweet feeling
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Registered: 11-06-2006
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 7:41pm
That's great!! New appliances and a new floor that STBX has no say is liberating. My Ex also left his family for OW 800 miles away. He flys her here one month for a week and he flys there for a week. Bizarre-I'm sure that will last once he runs out of $$
Brenda
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Registered: 04-19-2006
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 8:18pm

Wahoo! Good for you. Each step to a new life and independence can be so empowering.

Best of luck

(and by the way - she won't be worth it. You're worth it!)