UPDATE - BENCH WARRANT
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| Thu, 01-19-2006 - 7:39pm |
Faxed my questions to FOC today and HE ACTUALLY CALLED ME BACK!!!!! I was so thankful and he answered a lot of my questions.
He told me that my X didn't show up for his court date and now he has a bench warrant. That is why I received the letter I got.
The FOC even said in their own words "Yes our paperwork can get confusing."
X's support modification that was denied in November because he didn't send anything back paperwork and then he refiled in December and FOC said that was denied also. I said but it was lowered $21. He said "technically" it was lowered on paper but in order for there to be a change in support it has to be at least $25 or more. So therefore his child support stayed in effect from it's original amount. Kinda sorta. He had to explain it to me a couple times but he was very very nice and very very patient.
So does this mean that the police are going to go out and pick him up? Absolutely not.
Does this mean it will scare the crap out of him to pay what he owes to our DD? Absolutely not.
But it does mean he is pathetic. He was to have DD 2x/wk for parenting time 5:30-8:30p.m. M and Th. Then he couldn't do 2x/wk because of hte price of gas (fine I agree). He chose Th. And he hasn't come to get our DD from the 1st of January alone at all during the week. Which is fine by me but I know my DD gets excited when she looks at the calendar to see what color star day it is to go with her dad. Then he dumps her.
Do I pay my bills on time. Nope. Do I scrape to get by - hell yes! But do I EVER put my DD last. NEVER.
Before I take myself to Vegas, buy new name brand shoes, buy new jewelry, new starter baseball caps or a new NEXTEL.
I take care of my DD.
My work shoes stink soooo bad I keep spraying febreeze in them because I have to make sure I have enough $$$ for my DD lunch and necessities she needs.
THANKS FOR ANYONE WHO READ MY POSTS!

I'm glad that you got some answers... and that you are such a GREAT mom!
Give yourself a hug.... or better yet, get an extra long one from your DD, you deserve it!.... and so does she!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~