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| Mon, 06-12-2006 - 10:00am |
So, my daughter called her father Friday night to ask him again to contribute to her contacts. HE is the one who got her involved. Again he told her he wanted to talk to me on the phone. I refused to call him. If he needed to talk to me so badly he could call me.
He gave her a whole bunch of B.S. about how he has a lot of his own medical bills to pay (TOO BAD-HE HAD GREAT HEALTH INSURANCE WHEN HE WAS ON MY PLAN), plus his legal bills (HIS OWN FAULT). He added that I get a lot of money in child support and I am now getting my alimony. She reminded him of the “big gift” he supposedly has waiting for my son at his house. He told her it wasn’t true-that I made it up!!! What??? My son is the one who told us about it. Does she really need to be involved in any of this??? I think she hung up on him.
Now my DS(12) is also involved. Of course, he feels the need to defend his father. He had a bad attitude all weekend. Then, last night he got mouthy with me. Telling me I get a lot of money from his dad, why can’t I just pay for them myself because they are not a medical need . Then he demanded I tell him how much of the child support money I put in a college fund for him and his sister. Hmmm…how does he know about that??? I told him it was none of his business. I don’t have to put anything away but I do.
Also, a few months ago my daughter did not go with her father during one of his visitation weekends. He has always told her if she doesn’t want to go she doesn’t have to. But, he gets angry with her when she doesn’t. He told me on the phone at the time that if she chooses not to visit him she will suffer the consequences. So, now he is playing favorites. How mature!!! She has stated she does not want to go on vacation with him this summer (He has them for 2 weeks).
