update to marriage counseling

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Registered: 02-26-2005
update to marriage counseling
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Tue, 01-09-2007 - 8:42am
Thank you for all your advice.I feel like if we still have feelings for each other.I have decided not to talk to my mom for awhile till I figure all this out.Last night on the phone she said I can't help it you married a ***hole,and she kept going on and on when I told her I didn't need the negative attitude.We have our first appt. with the counselor tommorrow night. Lori
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Registered: 01-29-2005
Tue, 01-09-2007 - 10:45am

Good luck to you in going to counseling, and good for you for putting some distance between you and your mom if she can't respect your need for her to not talk down about him. I hope you are able to work things out or, if you both realize you can't, that at the very least you can part on amicable terms.

Take care and let us know how you are doing.

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 01-09-2007 - 9:38pm
Good Luck with the counseling appointment. I wish you much success. I know all about Mother's not being supportive. I was unable to even speak to mine the first year. She was awful and I couldn't deal with that on top of everything else. God Bless You!
Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda