Update on me........
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| Wed, 12-06-2006 - 11:57am |
Hey everyone,
I haven't been able to post or reply as much as I would like to here, but once the holidays are done, it will be easier!!
I've been reading some posts and want you all to know I'm thinking of you!! Keep your heads high and remember you deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. You deserve a good, happy relationship and you deserve to be happy!! Stay strong and move forward!! When you have a hard time we are here to support each other. This board is truly amazing!!
Alright as for my update.....
**we have been seperated for 1 year!! 6 months officially by the court, so we are nearing the end.
**soon to be ex is almost 2 months behind in support, which is a real treat when I make $350 a week! But It could be worse I could still be living with him!!
**stbx is trying to get me to pay my car insurance.....nope, no way. It clearly states he can't drop any insurance as stated in our seperation papers. He should have thought of that then. The car title and registration is in his name. He claims he is poor, but has gone to 2 NASCAR races, a 4 wheeling trip in Canada with his buddies for the weekend and to the Ocean. He has been hunting all fall.....if your that poor live your lifestyle like I do and get a second job, like I do!!
**stbx forgot to pick up the kids from school on one of his visitation days.......yeah real swift! Ah and school and daycare have it in the files.....my daughter was finally picked up 50 minutes after school let out by stbx's uncle.
**my lawyer and I are supposed to have a final offer from stbx and his lawyer on or around the 15th of the month......should be interesting, the others have been a slap in my face, so we are waiting with bated breath!! But at least we are getting closer and the 6 months that the court makes us wait is here, so now it's bartering time!! I hate this part.....just give me my true 50% and lets move on.....he makes 63% more income than I do and wants ME to give him a deal!! LOL
**wants to change custody.......has already told me he is going to fight me all over again for custody!! FUN....FUN.....FUN!!!
Anyhow, that is how things are going here. I'll keep you updated. I'm keeping very upbeat and am loving my independent life as hard as it is at times. I'm still living at my moms, but they are gone until May. I keep super busy with work (I have one weekend off a month, and work the rest of the month) and school. This semester is almost done, and I'm signing up for another course next semester. It's so nice to live the life I have been dreaming of for years!! The kids are also doing great!!
HUGS to all of you!
Amie

Hi Amie~
Glad you checked in... and that things are going.... smoothly, or as smooth as they can (I always say... I could be worse).
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~