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Venting
| Mon, 07-10-2006 - 4:04pm |
My STBX is an a**. One of the issues in our marriage was his volunteering so much with sports. To the extent it was taking about from the kids. Well now that we are seperated he's gone to the extreme. He has umpired 6 or 7 games this week alone. I don't care what he does on his own time...I was actually hoping he'd find a new whore so he'd leave me alone. The problem is he had the kids over the weekend, 2 of the boy's are into sports, 1 is not. He umpired games all weekend and the kids just had to hang out until he was done. Even our son who isn't into sports had to just hand around. He is so selfish, it's all about him. He took them to a movie at 10:30 saturday night when our youngest had a baseball game at 8am Sunday morning that was a 45 minute drive away. He really is dumb. My biggest issue is having to let this stuff go. I know I can't control his parenting and I know no court is going to make him do it the way I think it should be done. Unless he's hurting them (which he's not, at least physically) they'll let him be. It just really hurts me to see the kids want to spend time with him but all he has time for is what he wants to do. I'm now seeing the stuff others saw when we were married and man, I could shoot myself for not leaving earlier. He even had the gall to ask me to go to dinner with him! I told him, in these exact words; "Are you out of your freakin mind? Go jump off a cliff". Too bad he won't.

He sounds like the "sportsnut" to me!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~