Very odd, personal question!!!

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Very odd, personal question!!!
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Wed, 09-17-2008 - 8:48pm
Does or has anyone had sex with their STBX? My STBX, out of nowhere, suggested today that we have "no strings attached sex"?! Is that weird? At first it didn't seem odd, but the more I thought about it I got kinda offended; I'm not good enough to be his wife, but good enough for that? What's everyone's opinion?

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Sun, 09-21-2008 - 10:51pm
Confession time...I caved and we were intimate. And you know what? You were all right- big mistake! For me it stirred up some raw emotions and I feel like I put myself back at square one. He told me he wanted to continue a physical relationship, even if I ever got a boyfriend! Then it hit me that he's using me! I came to my senses and told him never again- the way I see it it's either all of me on none of me. He of course didn't like that. I feel like such an idiot and the only thing it's done is made me realize I love him despite his jerk actions. I can honestly say it's very painful to realize that you love someone and know you can't have them the way you want.
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Registered: 04-18-2008
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 8:32am

Dont beat yourself up...I also caved a few weeks ago (shortly after serving the papers).

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 10:13am
You go girl.

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