Very weird situation
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Very weird situation
| Fri, 11-10-2006 - 3:52pm |
My ex husband is now dating my fiance's ex wife! Apparently they are getting pretty serious and are discussing marriage. On one hand I think they both deserve each other (both cheaters) - but on the other hand I'm having "issues". Not only do I have to deal with "her" as my fiance's ex wife (constantly calling him to "chat" - they do not have children together so they have no need to talk) - now I have to deal with her as a possible stepmother to my 2 boys and as my exhusband's new wife.
Has anyone had this situation before?

Wow! Must be weird.
My sweetie and I joke sometimes that we should have "called in the managers and made a trade" years ago. While his XW and my XH deserve each other, they're both very selfish and want someone else to take care of them. It wouldn't have worked since he wanted a mother and she wanted a father. And that's what they both got! (both SO's are 10-15 years older!)
You never know, though. That situation might work out great. If their relationship works, you already know each other and it's got to be easier to co-parent with that kind of history!
Good luck!
~calla~ mom to rosie and gracie
Babette,
The most important "red flad" I see from your post is the fact your fiance is still talking to his Ex. That has to stop. Today! His willingness to talk to her indicates (to me) that's he not "done" with the relationship. He needs to stop maintaining an emotional connection with his Ex. It's not fair to you and it means he's not totally over the relationship. Tell him he needs to decide who he's "involved" with. Don't marry him unless he's able to make the complete break. That's especially important now since she's dating your Ex.
Good luck.
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
That is weird.... especially since your husband is still communicating (I assume frequently) with his EX.
That whole deal just..... smells bad.... but Good Luck!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Sans the emotions involved, who the ex's marry is of no consequence to either of you really regardless of who they were previously married to.
Peace,
Di
***If you cannot define yourself, your circumstances will.***
Yuck and Ew!
This sounds like a very bad tv movie mello-drama.
Yes... that is weird.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~