Visitation questions?!?!?

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Registered: 05-02-2007
Visitation questions?!?!?
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Tue, 10-09-2007 - 8:55am

My divorce was final 7/27.

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Registered: 03-17-2005
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 11:00am

When the court ordered visitation did it take the childrens' opinion into consideration?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 3:08am
It depends on your jurisdiction. I would suggest that you call your attorney to ask this question. I see many posters answer this question that you could lost custody, that the judge could do this or that. For my jurisdiction, that was not true. At those ages, the kids could decide. It's important to find out what happens in YOUR jurisdiction, not someone else's.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 10-12-2007 - 4:54pm

I'd remind him that the "court order" is for the kids to have visitation with "him"... not he and his posse


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I know, that won't "solve" anything... but he's got to be understanding to what the kids are feeling (and that this isn't coming from YOU.... it's what THEY want... and THEY want their dad...not his current baggage... and perhaps if they get used to the situation with dad, they'll be more receptive to add-ons later).


Karen ~ wildlucky4me

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