Want to divorce my husband-need advice
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| Mon, 12-12-2005 - 12:32pm |
Hello,
This is a scary and sad time for me but I've been hiding these feelings for so long that I can no longer take it any more. My husband and I fight a lot and on top of that I was never really in love with him to begin with (super sad and long story that I won't get into right now). Anyhow, I am now 34 years old and feel that if I don't take action soon then I'll never be able to start anew and start a family like I've always wanted.
I have no idea how to approach this or how to plan for this. Does anyone have advice? I'm scared to bring it up with my husband. I know it will be tumoltous and I'm sure I'll lose the majority of my friends since they are couple friends but I know that I have to look after number 1.
Please help!
Thanks ladies!

Dear Brookita,
Unfortunately, I can't offer you any helpful advice but I want you to know that you are not the only one in this position. I am 28, have been married for 3 years (although we've been together for 8) and am starting to think that I want (need) to get out! I love him dearly, but am not IN LOVE with him. I have had doubts about our relationship from the beginning and yet I still married him...long story.
I too feel as though I need to make a change now, before it's too late. I'm not getting any younger. I'm stressed and I feel very trapped.
Any thoughts for me?