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| Fri, 05-25-2007 - 10:23am |
I post regularly on Single Mothers and Dating mostly because I was a full time member and CL there after my first divorce. Well, I am separated from DH #2 and we have not declared the end yet. He's moved out but we are talking and he comes over and we spend time together. The girls at SMAD are already post divorce mostly and seeing other guys off and on so they are so far past the effects of the divorce. I am not past my split yet.
He's upset right now because I am insecure over my cheating ex and have accused DH of many things he has not done. We have hurt one another with words and actions, but we do love one another immensely and he is just mentally shut down right now. I am learning to accept that he would never do to me what my ex did and hopefully we can reconcile.
Why is it foolish to hope for that? Why when I've seen it done is it pathetic to love him so much when I know he loves me too?
~Melissa~

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You're being way too hard on yourself. If we all waited until we were perfect, we'd never get married ;)
I got together with my current H while I was going through my divorce. I knew the timing was poor, but in my heart, I knew it was the right decision. Sometimes, we just have to listen to our gut. I'm not saying that we could completely disregard other people's feelings and circumstances, but our gut instincts are very important.
You were not, and are not, a wreck. You just have some issues to work on, and you are doing that through counseling.
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