We talked about separating - now what?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2003
We talked about separating - now what?
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Mon, 07-21-2008 - 4:01pm

I finally got my husband to hear me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-29-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 4:58pm
my situation may be 100% different, i am 29,been married 10 yrs we have 2 kids a son who is 10 and daughter age 5. We need to split because he has bad temper and domestic issues are not good, however, i will repsond to your post because even though you want this and know its for the best i think anyone and everyone has the moment of doubt simply because the love the other or because its scarey to think u may do this and only find out you regret it, but if you felt this way for 2 yrs im sure your heart is in right place and this is what u need to do, i tried to talk to my hubby about seperating and hoping it could improve us but he flat out tells me if i go he wants a divorce right away, anyhow i wish you luck, i know its hard, sometimes the best things for us tend to be the hardest but you can do it.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 11:05am

You could do an informal separation or a legal one.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2008
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 2:19pm

I'm at the same place. After 30 years of marriage, I am flat out of try. The last two years have been nothing short of torture. I have developed blood pressure problems. I had to have my gall bladder removed last fall. I am all kinds of meds. We have three children-two of which are out of the house and are what I call functioning adults (26 & 23). The 26 year old can't seem to get

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2003
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 4:49pm

His character is rock solid.