We thought we'd be together forever...
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We thought we'd be together forever...
| Sat, 06-03-2006 - 12:09am |
He signed the papers today. I go to court to make it final Tuesday. We are both so incredibly sad. We both though we would be together forever. We were together 20 years, and it all fell apart. He cheated on me, and we just couldn't work it out. He wouldn't give up his GF, and wouldn't see a therapist. I finally gave up, and after months of therapy, I filed for divorce. Now that it is almost over though, I just can't believe this is how we ended up. Despite all the hell he put me through, I still feel bad that he is sad. My friends all tell me it's karma that he's suffering now, and I know it's true. But at the same time, I feel guilt. Someone please tell me I'm not the only one who has felt this way. It seems ridiculous to still care about how he's doing in all this, but I loved him for a lot of years, and I just can't be mean about this.

I am sure you are going through a range of emotions right now.
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