we work together&he refuses to leave
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we work together&he refuses to leave
| Thu, 02-21-2008 - 3:49am |
I'm new here, but not new to the idea of divorce.
| Thu, 02-21-2008 - 3:49am |
I'm new here, but not new to the idea of divorce.
~Hello itsagoodday!!
I want you to know that there are many divorcing couples still sharing the marital home until the final divorce!
I was also married for a long time, 16 yrs, and most of those I was planning on the big leave. We did seperate a few times over the many years, but he would never leave! The homes were rentals back then, and I would have to pack up and take my 3 kids with me..everytime! Lucky for you that you have enough to live on, I didnt, and always came back to him.
We purchased a home a few years ago. I finally left him this past September. My girls are grown now, but I do have custody of my 4 yr old granddaughter. Because I knew he would refuse the divorce, I moved out while he was at work and let him have the big house. I am still struggling financially.
I had my lawyer file for Temp orders 2 months after my leaving. The judge gave the ex to be temporary use of the home until the final divorce decree. I dont want the home, cannot afford it.
You can file for divorce and for Temporary Orders for now. The judge will decide for you about who stays in the house. Of course this means he will be served and you will be living together, still.
I am sure those with this type of experience will come along with ideas of their own.. GOOD LUCK!
~Lisa =))
He's holding you hostage in your own marriage!!!!!!---*how* is that good for HIM?????????????????
I'd plan a consultation with an attorney---collaborate with a friend and make it happen.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~