Web sites

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2004
Web sites
2
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 9:27pm

Is the web site www.divorcesource.com a good way to get a divorce or should I say a legal way and that I wouldn't lose out.

My husband and I have come to the conclusion that we have a unconventional marriage and have discussed divorce but not in detail. We will always be best friends but I don't love him like a wife should. We've known each other for 18 years been married for 15 this Oct. We have a 6 year old.

He has a girlfriend who is 22 and he is 42. I have had a few boyfriends he only knows of one the other two he does not know about. This is what I mean about uncoventional. It works for us but he's falling for this girl. The guys I was and one I've been seeing for over 8 years I never wanted to leave him for because the 3 I did see are all married. This girl has never been obviously by her age.

Very confused. Sort of??

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: kelly4020
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 4:55pm

Hi Kelly.... I think that those divorce web sites (like divorcesource.com) are an excellent place to gain insight and guidance.... but, with that long term of a marriage (assets, debts, retirement, investments, etc) AND a child, I wouldn't go any other way except to hire an attorney locally.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2004
In reply to: kelly4020
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 8:59pm

Hi,

Thank you so much for your advice. Me and my husband spoke about it tonight again but better this time. He doesn't want to hurt me and he wants me to have half of everything. He knows over the years I've given him a lot of money besides grief ha ha, but that goes both ways.

I will definetly visit this site and let you know what happens.