wedding anniversary after divorce

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2004
wedding anniversary after divorce
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Mon, 08-28-2006 - 9:20pm

hi...

this board really helped me when i was going through my separation. i was hoping i could vent a little bit, and maybe get some honest feedback. thank you for your time!

my divorce has been final for a year and a half. september will bring our 3yr wedding anniversary. i'm embarrased to admit that this anniversary date is really bothering me. it's bringing up so many memories again. i feel like such a failure. i've dated since then, but nothing has worked out. i feel so alone, and really miss my old life. i could understand the 1st and 2nd year effecting me, but shouldn't i be over this by now?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 08-29-2006 - 9:45am

When you're alone and you feel like something's missing, I don't think that you do "get over it".


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~